Hello, I am Nico.
As a sex counselor and Sexological Bodyworker, I support people on their journey toward a self-determined and pleasurable sexuality. I help my clients experience themselves free from sexual blockages and connect with their bodies as a nourishing resource.
I believe that we grow most through lived experience. That’s why my work combines conversational counseling with embodied learning. I invite my clients into spaces of self-exploration where they can gently rediscover themselves and their bodies.
I see myself as a companion on the path to mindful sexuality—one that doesn’t always require glowing self-love vibes. From my own experiences with depression, I bring a big heart for the presumably unpretty and the stubborn.

What I enjoy most about my work is the presence I feel when I attune fully to the moment and to my client’s unique experience. I love the sweet moments when a change in my client’s life shows itself in the small, quiet details.
Key Training & Experience
Seit 2024
Trainer for the Sexological Bodywork training programs at ISB Berlin
2024
Licensed as general Heilpraktiker, examed by the Berlin Health Office
2021 – 2023
Training as a teacher of Sexological Bodywork at ISB Berlin
2021
Certified Lomi Lomi massage therapist at Lomi Massage School KahiLomi, trained by Stefan Surber
2018 – 2021
Training as a Sexological Bodyworker and Coach for Somatics and Sexuality at ISB Berlin, under Mareen Scholl an Nino Mar Selitz
1991
First-hand experience: Being born
Networks & Links
www.isbberlin.com – Institute for Somatic Education, Sexuality and Bodywork, Berlin
www.easb.eu – I am a member of the European Association of Sexological Bodywork
www.sexologicalbodywork.berlin – Web presentation of the Berlin-based Sexological Bodyworkers
www.trustedbodywork.com – Directory for certified Tantra massage, Sexological Bodywork, and sex counseling